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Saturday 03.11.17

BABY TEA : NADA

The Dauphine of Bushwick X Wise Men blowout "CONTEMPORARY DRAG" with NADA X Print All Over Me, PERADAM & EAI, Curated by Gordon Robichaux. Theda Hammel and The Dauphine in Conversation, with performances by Matt Savitsky, Merrie Cherry, Patti Spliff, and The Dauphine!

Party: WET NOISE

One of GAYLETTER’s friends, Matthew Placek, is throwing another edition of his party Wet Noise at the Mockingbird in the East Village. He’s thrown this party before, and he told us that the last edition was “off the damn chain.” It’s “a filthy funk dance party.” That means be prepared to dance. Matthew told us before that he’s trying “to make a place for people to release HARD and all night :).” When this party came about he wanted to “create a party that offered up filthy dirty funk music on vinyl and urged everyone to put their damn phones away, don’t take pictures, check your chatter boxes at the door…” At times like these, that seems like a pretty great idea. Music for the night is by Ana Matronic (from Scissor Sisters) and Amber Martin (she’s one of our favorite people). Cheap drinks! “$5 Well Drinks from 10-11PM & 3-4AM.” It sounds like a great way to release some stress. Something we could all use right now.

FREE, 10:00PM, The Mockingbird, 25 Avenue B (Downstairs) New York, NY.

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Friday 03.10.17

Early by Ryan McGinley

In 2010 I was in high school (don’t be ageist), but Abi and Tom were busy achieving some kind of New York goal. The New York Times said they were amongst the creme-dela-creme of NYC nightlife, but one dude at Gawker wasn’t having it. He wrote a playful though slanderous post degrading every person featured in the Times’ article. He came for GAYLETTER because of a Ryan McGinley “name-drop.” Now, I’m not sure what a Gawker writer covering parties knows about art, but there’s no fault in a Ryan McGinley name drop. He’s one of the youngest to ever exhibit a solo show at the Whitney. Plus, he’s gay! You’ve got to give credit where credit is due.

 

His latest show Early is up at Team Gallery and looks like a real treat. “The photographs in this exhibition were made in New York City from 1999 to 2003, a period defined by hopelessness for many Americans — synonymous with the onset of the Bush Era, 9/11. These vérité images capture the exploits of the artist’s social circle, members of an outlaw creative community based in New York’s Lower East Side.” McGinley feels he’s part of a tradition synonymous with many other artist’s series where there is an acute desire and eventual need to document your friends. You’re in for a bit of sex, drugs and rock’n’roll at this one, and because it’s McGinley, probably several moments of nudity and severe tenderness. Enjoy!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

On view through April 1st, Team Gallery, 83 Grand St. …

Thursday 03.09.17

Event: Bailey House Auction

Bailey House provides housing and medical assistance to people living with HIV. It all started in 1983, when “a group of visionary and compassionate men and women organized the nation’s first response to homelessness among men living with AIDS.” Bailey House were the first to do anything to help homeless people with HIV and AIDS. Dealing with the disease back then was hard enough, but also not having a home, now that’s another level of struggle. We’re so happy we can write up this event. The work they have, and continue to, do is impressive!! Each year they do an auction to raise money for the organization and this year they have some pretty impressive artists involved. Alan Cumming is hosting the event and art pieces will be available from artists like Robert Mapplethorpe and Herb Ritts but also newer artists like Gio Black Peter and Sean O’Connor.” While you’ll be helping out an amazing charity, auctions like this are often a pretty smart way to buy valuable art at a discount. It’s an auction after all, so they have to sell the pieces to highest bidder. Sometimes that’s a lot less than the pieces are worth on the open market. Of course that’s not the main reason you should go, but just saying, it’s something to think about.

$100, 7:00PM, Pier 60, Chelsea Piers New York, NY.

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Wednesday 03.08.17

Listen: Food 4 Thot Podcast

As you may have gleamed from reading GAYLETTER, I love a podcast, especially one aimed at us homos — there’s honestly not that many good ones out there. A new addition to this group is Food 4 Thot. Hosted by Joe Osmundson, Tommy Pico, Fran Tirado and Dennis Norris II — the podcast discusses everything from “sex, relationships, race, identity, what we like to read, and who we like to read.” The hosts are all writers, Fran is an editor at Hello Mr. Magazine, Tommy is a poet and the “founder and editor-in-chief of birdsong, an antiracist/queer-positive collective, small press and zine,” Dennis and Joe have written for online publications including Gawker and The Los Angeles Review. They’ve only produced a couple of podcasts so far, and are clearly warming up to the medium. In the two episodes I heard they sounded open and honest (mandatories for a successful podcast) and covered a good range of topics. I am having a little trouble differentiating the voices, but that’s often the case when a podcast has more than 3 people (it’s weird how one extra voice can make such a difference.) If you are looking for a new queer podcast to add to your rotation, Food 4 Thot is def worth a listen.

food4thotpodcast.com

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Tuesday 03.07.17

BABY TEA: FUCK YOU, PRESIDENT

The Dauphine of Bushwick X Wise Men: BABY TEA #NotMyPresident 's Day Edition! Music by Merrie Cherry and Zenobia, and Tea Set Winner Amber Venerable!

Sunday 03.05.17

Event: CONTEMPORARY DRAG

There’s so much going on this week, I seriously can’t (read this one with a Valley Girl’s voice), like seriously, it’s too fucking much. I just came back from LA, and now we have a magazine to make! OK, let me take a deep breath and let you know what’s happening as part of the NADA Art Fair this week. Gordon Rabichaux Gallery is curating a contemporary drag program. According to Tyler Ashley who is part of it, “everyday of the fair will feature a series of performances, talks, or presentation each day, including film screenings.” For the final day of the fair, Sunday, March 5th, BABY TEA takes over and features a talk between Hamm Samwich and Me, and performances by Matt Savitsky, Merrie Cherry and Patti Spliff. It will then become a closing gay tea dance. On top of all of this, many of the artists included in the contemporary drag program will also participate in a collab with PAOM (Print All Over Me) from which they have designed something that will be available in limited edition.” Check out their calendar of events from March 2-5. It all sounds very fun!

FOR MORE INFO: www.newartdealers.org/fairs/2017/new-york/programs

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Saturday 03.04.17

Party: The Dreamhouse Is The Arcade

This one sounds lit. Here’s what the organizers had to say about this jam-packed party: “We have been long waiting to find the arcade, and now have found one over in Greenpoint. 3 Floors 4 Rooms to play in.... cyberpunk. cybergoth, hackers, TRONS, weLCUM to the motherfucking Queer matrixXx... you are all invited, freaks, geeks, scifi weirdos, Gravers, RAVERS come and RAVEL and unRAVEL. live. action. roleplaY. in our new DIGITAL PLAYYYGROUND. where HI FI and LOW FI collide....” I mean, shit, how are we not meant to go this event after reading all that? On a more specific note, there’s about 20 hosts, soooo, sorry but I’m gonna skip over you guys. Instead I’ll focus on the music. There’s gonna be a live show by Richard Kennedy, then music across three rooms by Joey Labeija, DjDj DESE, A Village Raid vs. Donnatella Presents Metal Dance 1, Films by Robert Fox, Justin Cudmore, Michael Magnan. It starts at midnight, cos as I said it’s lit and goes until 4:00AM. Amazingly they say there’s more to be announced. Get it girl!

$15-$25, 12:00pm, Brooklyn Bazaar, 150 Greenpoint Ave. BK, NY.

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Friday 03.03.17

Event: Stand Up Against Rape at Littlefield

While there have sadly been an uncountable amount of horrific things that have happened since the Brock Turner case (hi Donald), the Committee to Recall Judge Aaron Persky is not just going to let this one go. On Friday night they’ll be putting on Stand Up Against Rape, a comedy fundraiser. The money raised will go towards collecting signatures to get Judge Persky on the ballot in California so he can then be voted off. Otherwise he won’t be back on the ballot until 2022 and most likely never face the consequences of his actions. To remind you, Judge Persky sentenced rapist Brock Turner to only six months in jail, ignoring the minimum sentence of two years. Not to mention his long standing record for biased outcomes in favor of white, male athletes. He’s a real gem! Hosted by Blair Socci and Farah Brook, Stand Up Against Rape will feature comedy from Lane Moore, Janelle James, Marcia Belsky, Giulia Rozzi, Arti Gollapudi and Marlena Rodriguez. There will be raffles, prizes and a chance to celebrate the demise of misogynists. Come join the fun!

$15-$20, 7:00PM-11:00PM, Littlefield, 622 Degraw St. BK, NY.

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Thursday 03.02.17

BABY, I LIKE IT RAW

I read the notes for this photography and video show opening and got, well, horny! It’s been really easy to fetishize any kind of urbanite Slavic boy as of late. Honestly, I think even Trump has caught wind of this fantasy. “What once was the Eastern Bloc is now defining itself with and against a consumer history it never really had. Raw desires and energy — youth culture — come into tension with the ghosts of Marx, Lenin, and Stalin. Larry Clark and Gosha Rubchinskiy greet each other in the Brutalist architectural spaces of conformity and power.”

 

A handful of artists are included in the show, including our beloved Slava Mogutin, so I’m thinking it will be very sexy overall, with a pinch of melancholia. Some of the images I saw were boys in jockstraps; a penis peeking out of said jockstraps. The boys were photographed alone looking just the right amount of dirty. The show’s title Baby, I Like It Raw was enough to get me interested, but they hooked me with this: “If we were to find you all young and willing, easy and free…, and put you in a room, it might be something like this show. It might smell like black cigarettes, sex, and alcohol. It would be cold. It would be hot. It would shine brilliant and real. Clothing would be cast-off with innocence. There might be blood on the snow and the concrete.” I wish this was a lie, but I just put on I Like It Rough by Lady Gaga. …

Wednesday 03.01.17

Remy Ma Diss Track – ‘Shether’

Nicki Minaj and Remy Ma have had a long standing beef that goes back way before Remy was sent to prison six years ago. Not that she’s out, Nicki has been throwing shade on Instagram about Remy’s recent single sales, which sent Remy to the studio to respond with a blistering diss track. If you haven’t heard it you really need to, it’s brutal. In ‘Shether’ Remy really doesn’t hold back.

 

Here’s a couple of lines that deserve to be written out: “Talkin’ about bringin’ knives to a fight with guns, When the only shot you ever took was in your buns, And I saw Meek at All-Star, he told me your ass dropped, He couldn’t fuck you for three months, Because your ass dropped, Now I don’t think y’all understand how bad her ass got, The implants that she had put in her ass popped” Or how about this one: “Been through mad crews, you disloyal hoochie, Now all of a sudden you back with Drake and Tunechi? After he said you sucked his dick, you back with Gucci? Who next: Puff, Deb, or Fendi? You a A-list groupie.” And finally: “You claimed you never fucked Drake, Now that’s where you took me, You fucked the whole Empire — who you tryin’ to be, Cookie?”

 

I really wasn’t expecting her response to be this vicious. But she went there. And now all we have to do is what for Nicki’s response. The expectations are sky high Black Barbie! …

Tuesday 02.28.17

People Like Us – A Singapore Gay Web Series

It’s amazing how Gay YouTube has become. I remember spending hours watching those “It Gets Better” videos on my smartphone into the early hours of the morning as a teenager. In a way, YouTube not only helped me figure out the person I was, but also the person I could look forward to becoming. It sort of evolved with me, and now those grainy confessional webcam vids have become high-production web series. One cool standout is People Like Us. Shot and based in Singapore, the seven-minute episodes track the lives of four gay men living in a country where, although rarely enforced, homosexuality is technically illegal. Therefore, common things like Grindr, saunas, and awkward first dates gain new dimensions.

 

The characters frequently flip-flop between English and Malay (sometimes during the same sentence) and the locations are gorgeous. It’s great to see the nuances of gay life play themselves out, and this repressed vantage point doesn’t hurt. But People Like Us’ stand out quality is its depiction of loneliness as a global experience. Rai, with a heart-melting puppy dog smile, charisma, and killer bone structure, spends a significant portion of the season on Grindr – hitting brick walls through a carousel of first dates. Western viewers will connect with the show by seeing, even while living in a less accepting era, that we all have the same vanities, the same anxieties, and the same sexual frustrations.

 

There’s a great moment when two of the characters are quizzing each other about their Friday nights. …