Monday 11.14.16

Who’s Gonna Love Me Now?

Debuts at the 30th Anniversary Israel Film Festival in Los Angeles

During the most depressing of times, we can always turn to art for inspiration. It’s imperative to remind ourselves of the light in other people, and the beauty of seeing human beings for who they really are. Barak and Tomer Heymann’s documentary Who’s Gonna Love Me Now? does just that. The film follows Saar, a 39-year-old Israeli living with HIV in London, who is beginning to reconcile his sexual identity with his national one. Saar grew up on a religious kibbutz, which is a communal farm, back in Israel, and after avoiding them for years, tries to make amends with his family.


When we first meet Saar, he has already lived in London for over a decade and has worked hard to build a community for himself. His life mainly surrounds the Gay Men’s Chorus he participates in. The chorus helped him initially adjust to this foreign country and has since become a second family, caring for him without judgement. Throughout the movie it becomes clear just how central the chorus is to all of the members’ lives and scenes of them performing together punctuate the film, often providing much needed comic relief.


Saar explains that after going through a bad breakup, he stopped taking care of himself and consciously started making dangerous decisions. He knew how irresponsible he was being and would later admit that his HIV diagnosis felt like karma for the acts he committed both to others and himself. Although part of him feels like he’s being appropriately punished, he manages to handle his positive status with a lightheartedness and dark sense of humor. …

Wednesday 10.26.16


Directed by Barry Jenkins, Moonlight is a beautifully crafted film that traces the treacherous life of Chiron, a young boy growing up gay in a housing project in Miami. The film is divided into three parts. We first meet Chiron as a young, shy boy, then as a still shy, but angry, teen and finally as a lonely, hardened young man. Chiron’s mother is an addict and he’s constantly picked on by boys at school. The only people who offer him any solace are a local drug dealer named Juan (Mahershala Ali) and his girlfriend (played by Janelle Monae). Each section is powerful enough to live on its own as a short film, but there's a well planned thread running through all three. Chiron is played by three different actors, all wonderful in their own ways. I had heard Moonlight described in glowing terms — A.O. Scott from the NY Times even went as far to ask if it was the year’s best film. Of the movies I’ve seen in 2016, it certainly is. Moonlight doesn’t provide obvious resolution to the turmoil in Chiron’s life. It’s not afraid to leave things open-ended. It’s a subtle film, full of loneliness, with brief moments of what looks like transcendence. It is a portrayal of a truly damaged soul, longing for connection. It’s a condemnation of toxic masculinity. Chiron does ultimately find connection, and how this plays out (which I won’t give away) is what makes this such a brilliant film. I left the cinema with such empathy for the character. I had RuPaul’s mantra rolling around in my head: “If you can’t love yourself, how the hell you gonna love somebody else.” It’s not that there’s no love in Chiron’s world, he just never learned the most important part: how to give it to himself. Moonlight has stayed with me since I saw it. I’m grateful it was made.

In select cinemas now.


Wednesday 10.05.16

‘Queer ‘90s,’ A Snapshot of the Watershed Decade in Cinema

I heard from a few people that I must check out the newish Cinema Metrograph in the Lower East Side. My friend Charlie Kuder is always like “I’m heading to Metrograph, are you coming? It’s a great place.” Their ‘About’ page says that “Metrograph is a unique experience of seeing prestigious films; of stepping into a special, curated world of cinema, a world of hospitality harkening back to the great New York movie theaters of the 1920s…” You can have a proper cocktail, have a bite, they even have a bookstore — it’s the perfect excuse to wear something cute for the theater.


This week they are opening their ‘Queer ‘90s’ series, which features over 30 films that they’ll be showing until October 30th. “The 1990s was a watershed decade for the visibility of queer bodies in independent, documentary, experimental, and studio films. The emergence of “New Queer Cinema,” a movement of filmmakers reacting to the rightward shift in culture and the specter of the AIDS plague, produced formally radical and political works about and specifically for LGBT audiences…” This sounds absolutely marvelous, I can’t think of a better fit for GAYLETTER. We’ll be going there a lot for the rest of the month.


The Crying Game (1992).


Gia (HBO) January 31, 1998.


Go Fish (1994).


High Art (1998).


Poison (1991).


Set It Off (1996).



Wednesday 08.31.16

Film: The Birth of Saké

If you are a big fan of Saké, like me, this documentary might interest you. This is an advance screening of the film, co-presented with the Center for Asian American Media (CAAM), before it airs to the public on PBS. It’s followed by Q&A with the producer Masako Tsumura at the Asia Society New York. The film was directed by the NYC filmmaker Erik Shirai, he was a cinematographer for the Travel Channel series No Reservations with Anthony Bourdain. The description goes like this: “Go behind the scenes at Japan’s Yoshida Brewery, where a brotherhood of artisans, ranging from 20 to 70, spend six months in nearly monastic isolation as they follow an age-old process to create saké, the nation’s revered rice wine.” This doc seems promising, I read good things about it —  it won “Special Jury Mention for Best Documentary Director, at the 2015 Tribeca Film Festival.” I go nuts and bananas for Saké, specially if it’s hot. Can’t wait to see how the real shit is made!

FREE, RSVP: or call 212-327-9302, 6:00PM, ASIA SOCIETY , 725 Park Ave NY, NY.


Wednesday 08.24.16

Film: Embrace of the Serpent

There’s too many events happening in this week that are the “last for the summer.” Aghh, I hate that term! Case in point is Wednesday’s final screening for the outdoor film series that has taken place at Socrates Sculpture Park in Long Island City all summer. The film, Embrace of the Serpent, has a 99% critic rating on Rotten Tomatoes. It tells the story of “a young shaman (Nilbio Torres) in the Colombian Amazon” who “helps a sick German explorer (Jan Bijvoet) and his local guide (Miguel Dionisio Ramos) search for a rare healing plant.” It’s set in the early 1990’s, and is apparently very beautifully shot and brilliantly acted. This event is a no-brainer. Not only do you get to see an amazing film, but you get to do it in one of NYC’s most unique settings. The Socrates Sculpture Park is filled with all kinds of clever exhibit sculptures and multi-media installations. The summer is unfortunately winding up, don’t miss a minute of it!

Various, 7:00pm, Socrates Sculpture Park, 32-01 Vernon Blvd Astoria, NY.


Friday 08.19.16


I just spent the last ten minutes watching Meryl Streep interviews on YouTube. That woman gives me life! Even in interviews she commits to the role. She has an all-or-nothing quality that makes her irresistible to watch. Meryl herself has referred to this quality in a recent interview she gave to the Wall Street Journal: “There’s that great Vincent Van Gogh quote: ‘I am seeking, I am striving, I am in it with all my heart.’ That’s the aspiration.” She certainly lives up to Vincent’s motto in Florence Foster Jenkins, her latest film about the 1940’s socialite, and terrible singer, of the same name. Florence had great confidence in her voice, even buying out Carnegie Hall for a concert, despite the fact that she was unable to ever hit the right notes. Meryl has great fun singing badly in the movie and director Stephen Fryers turns up the campiness to 1000. This film is great fun. It’s a perfect summer pick-me-up, Meryl carries from start to finish!



Thursday 08.11.16

Women He’s Undressed

Director Gillian Armstrong delves into the famous costumer's life behind the scenes

Hollywood has a secret meant to disappear in the memories of those who have lived it. A secret that isn’t technically “new,” since it just turned eighty-seven years old. It is a secret hidden behind Marilyn Monroe, Bette Davis, and Katharine Hepburn. The secret was kept by a man who won three Oscars, designed costumes for 285 films, struggled with alcohol and shaped the look of the Golden Age of Hollywood. He also happened to be Cary Grant’s boyfriend. A love lost in the convenient homophobia of the 1930s American dream.



Australian filmmaker Gillian Armstrong has unearthed Orry George Kelly’s story in her new documentary, Women He’s Undressed. Through surrealist live narration in Kelly’s own voice and a network of interviews with timeless muses and industry heavyweights, the film crafts a confident persona of this uncompromising, gay Australian man whose legacy was lost because of his openness.



Armstrong sits down with actors like Angela Lansbury and Jane Fonda, and costume designers Catherine Martin of Moulin Rouge! and Colleen Atwood of Chicago to tease out the mechanics of the film industry and explore how Kelly behaved because of it. Through these conversations, we learn that Hollywood was (and probably still is) a boy’s club controlled by a handful of straight men at the head of each studio who were persistent on presenting the conventional family dynamic. Being openly gay in this environment was rare. “It was like being a communist,” laughs Fonda, one of the last to work with Kelly. …

Saturday 08.06.16

Film: Dim All the Lights: Disco and the Movies

It’s no secret that disco is #back, and I would like to take this public moment to personally thank fashion, for without its habitual recycling process we’d all still be wearing a low-rise, boot cut jean. Not saying that shape doesn’t work for some, but really Britney Spears is the only person to make that look successful (and she had to hit rock bottom to do so). But because fashion is BFFs with art, music, and film, we often see the same stylistic tropes happening across all mediums. You can only be on for so long, so some folks are looking to 70s films to steal their style. “Dim All the Lights: Disco and the Movies, is a week-long series curated by Melissa Anderson and Amélie Garin-Davet at Metrograph, which we heard “is cunt!” from Brooklyn white boy Charlie Kuder. On Saturday they are showing my Mom’s fave, Saturday Night Fever with the young, metrosexual John Travolta, along with Nighthawk, the “quietly revolutionary film that gives us one of cinema’s first complex, fully realized gay protagonists: Jim (Ken Robertson), an out geography teacher and compulsive clubgoer.” To follow Saturday’s screenings, there is a disco-party at Nowhere Bar so you can dance to Donna Summer for the 400th time this summer, but feel like it’s just oh-so necessary and culturally relevant this time around. Grab your roller skates girls, because before you know it, people will be asking you to join their skate-dance team. No time like the past/present! TURN, TURN, TURN!



Saturday 07.16.16

Cherry Grove Outtakes Film Festival

In my opinion, you can never have enough queer film. Luckily, the first ever Outtakes Film Festival is going on right now at the historic Cherry Grove Community House and Theater on Fire Island. Cherry Grove has been a bastion of LGBT artistic expression since it began over 170 years ago. That’s a lot of homos making art. The film festival aims to commemorate Cherry Grove’s history while looking proudly into its future.


The Cherry Grove Archives Committee (CGAC) has been preserving every type of footage they can get their hands on. From 8 millimeter films to family photo albums, members of the community have generously donated their keepsakes in the name of conserving what makes Cherry Grove special. For Outtakes, the CGAC has put together documentaries, short films, and archival footage to create a truly special cinematic experience. Join in celebrating a place that’s known just as much for activism as it is for camp.


FREE (donations welcome), July 16 &17, Cherry Grove Community House and Theater, Fire Island, NY. …

Monday 07.11.16

Forbidden: Undocumented and Queer in Rural America

My name is Moises Serrano. I’m queer, undocumented, and unafraid.” With these words, Moises Serrano (pictured) came out publicly as both gay and undocumented, a second kind of closet most of us can’t even image having to grapple with. Forbidden: Undocumented and Queer in Rural America is a documentary by Tiffany Rhynard, that follows the life of 23 year-old Moises as he struggles growing up in North Carolina. He is impossibly sweet and works tirelessly to raise awareness for migration reform.


Throughout the movie we follow his relationship with his boyfriend and his journey applying to college. What the film does best is what Moises often tries to do with his activism; it puts a face to a number. Undocumented immigrants are not simply a statistic we can throw around for the sake of a political argument. They are real people, facing serious problems, while also going through the ups and downs of life.


The film begins with the sound bite of Donald Trump’s racist hate speech regarding Mexicans, throwing us right into the thick of our current bleak political situation. There were over 11 million undocumented immigrants living in the United States as of 2014, with obviously a significant portion of them belonging to the queer community. There is wide misinformation being constantly spread by politicians and the media about undocumented people. They work hard and contribute to society (and yes, they pay taxes), yet aren’t eligible for food stamps or medicaid, not to mention living in a constant state of fear. …